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m Health
Mental Health






https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/principles-lifelong-meaningful-relationships-ray-dalio/Ray Dalio on life long relationships
https://unherd.com/2019/12/is-this-the-end-for-labour/Paul Embrey on what liberal UK voters really want and why they voted conservative in 2019
https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/thomas_sowell_163937Thomas Sowell on "Johnny doesn't know what thinking is" **


https://www.businessinsider.com/the-40-smartest-people-of-all-time-2015-2#now-take-a-look-at-whos-sharp-on-wall-street--41


Signs your partner cares for you video





Key Concepts


Master Life 

book-Master Life-notes3-feedback. gdoc 

Master Life-v1.pdf.  link

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https://www.bobdylan.com/songs/forever-young/

May God bless and keep you always

May your wishes all come true

May you always do for others

And let others do for you

May you build a ladder to the stars

And climb on every rung

May you stay forever young

May you grow up to be righteous

May you grow up to be true

May you always know the truth

And see the lights surrounding you

May you always be courageous

Stand upright and be strong

May you stay forever young

May your hands always be busy

May your feet always be swift

May you have a strong foundation

When the winds of changes shift

May your heart always be joyful

May your song always be sung

May you stay forever young



What is Young and Old?


Young and old are states of mind.
I had a young best friend who was in his 90s.
I have friends who were old in their 20s.
You have many different ages.
Your chronological age.
Your emotional age.
Your financial age.
Your physical age.
They are not the same.

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https://www.cnbc.com/2022/06/27/3-ways-to-talk-to-kids-so-they-will-actually-listen.html

the ability to listen is critical

You get what you want and they get what they want. It’s win-win

Say what you see - without judgements

Say what you see. Rather than imposing your judgement on other’s behavior, resist the urge to react and quite literally vocalize what you see.

Ask how they feel about it.

Listen. Don't judge.

Acknowledge and clarify

Show you understand how they feel.

Ask the right questions. How can I help? How do feel about X? Why? What if X?

If they are concerned or frustrated, ask how you can help.

Offer specific, simple choices to get feedback

Adjust your thoughts, feelings, questions and responses as needed

End on a Strength and a Commitment

Agree on their strengths and opportunities

Help them find their next step

Offer your support where it makes sense

Get their commitment and follow up tasks on both ends





Ray Dalio on life long meaningful relationships

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https://finance.yahoo.com/news/warren-buffett-spent-70-years-165313177.html?_fsig=4ltWrFq8Xr9lJ1kZrmAAjQ--%7EA

"You want to associate with people who are the kind of person you'd like to be. You'll move in that direction. And the most important person by far in that respect is your spouse"

"If you want a marriage to last, look for someone with low expectations," he said.

His guidance on choosing a partner with low expectations is a nuanced perspective on marriage that warrants interpretation. Rather than suggesting people should settle for anyone willing to commit, Buffett’s insight emphasizes the significance of maintaining standards.


Lessons parents need to teach kids

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